12 Kindness Elf Ideas

Use the elf to nudge kind habits: challenges, donations and thank-yous that kids actually enjoy.

12 ideas

Homework Helper

The elf is found doing a maths worksheet or writing a list of Christmas spellings.

5 min setup No mess 2 items

Kindness Challenge Card

The elf leaves a small challenge such as “Give someone a compliment today”.

2 min setup No mess 2 items

Toy Donation Box

The elf leaves an empty box with a note asking your child to choose a toy to give away.

5 min setup No mess 2 items

Santa Letter Helper

The elf leaves paper, pens and an envelope addressed to Santa so your child can write their list.

5 min setup No mess 3 items

Sock Snowman Workshop

The elf has been raiding the sock drawer to make little sock snowmen.

15 min setup A little mess 3 items

Elf Dental Check-up

The elf lines up the family’s toothbrushes and leaves a note to brush well before the big day.

2 min setup No mess 2 items

Bedtime Story Reader

The elf is found reading a Christmas picture book to your child’s soft toys.

2 min setup No mess 2 items

Paper Chain Countdown

The elf brings a paper chain with one link to tear off each day until Christmas.

20 min setup No mess 2 items

Last Selfie Together

The elf leaves a printed photo of your child from earlier in the month with “See you next year!”.

5 min setup No mess 1 item

Blanket Fort

The elf builds a mini fort out of napkins and pegs — or a full-size one for the family.

10 min setup No mess 3 items

Plan the whole month

One idea for every night from 1 to 24 December.

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